My very basic standard for conduct in any of my groups is to see if a post or action passes the Family Table Rule. As a guest in someone's home you may find yourself sitting at the family dining table. Most of us have learn to observe the host family to see what is considered appropriate behavior. My family consist of my wife of 36 years, my adult son and daughter and their spouses along with our grandson who is a toddler that repeats anything said. My family rule as it pertains to my EONS groups is that if I would not share the post with my family or repeat the words in the post or pass around an image from a post to my family then that post does not conform to the standards I hope for in my groups. That means I am uncomfortable with four letter words including the one describing body functions. It means that suggestive images or  phrases won't pass the test. It means that gender bashing will not pass the test.  I understand that many of these posts would be fine in a tavern or locker room atmosphere (except for gender bashing, it is not appropriate anywhere) but my groups do not have that atmosphere.  So if someone goes over the line a bit, I will give them a gentle reminder by a private message. If the post is way overboard it will be deleted immediately. If it is borderline then it may be deleted after the private message is sent. Borderline posts left unchecked invite other posts that may be more offensive. The bottom line here is I wish to welcome you all into my extended family and create an atmosphere where everyone can feel comfortable.  ~gJ